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Questioning Sexuality

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Not very Long ago I started admitting to myself that I'm Bisexual after i discovered i'm attracted to girls.
But after a while i started feeling disgusted whenever i think about guys in that way.
So i figured, WTH...I'm a lesbian, Yay me!

But now i'm confused...I used to be attracted to guys Only. Now I'm attracted to girls Only!
And I'm actually in love with a girl now, about a year ago i used to be in love with a guy.

WTH am I?!

I need Help :/
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  • Lol, you're a lesbian. Duh!

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      Anonymous
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      How, almost all my life i've been attracted to boys...how does that make me a lesbian?!
      I'm afraid it's just a phase :/

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    • Fine then, if you think it might be just a "phase" then you better take your time and not rush so fast into anything at the moment. However, the reason I suggest you might be a lesbian is how you directly mentioned that you're simply disgusted thinking about boys in that way now. Give it time then see if this changes but keep in mind that most of us at some point might have liked boys as well simply because there was no present chance to find out otherwise, till it happened.
      I'd say Bisexual if you had said you STILL CURRENTLY like boys AND girls but you're making it clear that you do not like boys anymore.

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      Well, that actually made sense. but most of the lesbians i know say they never liked boys, and that they knew it since they were young, so that's what got me confused, how can a lesbian like boys at any stage of her life?!
      and because i believe that homosexuality is not a choice, and that you're born with it...i cant understand why haven't i noticed this earlier?! Baring in mind that i was always open minded and knew about homosexuality at a young age..but I never thought i might be gay.

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    • Ummm I liked boys for like 14 years of my life there is always a changing event that shows us otherwise so ever since that "event" occurred, I never really felt a thing anymore for any guy no matter how smart or hot they are So was many lesbians I talked to, started with boys (cuz its normal you know?) then now 100% gay. At any rate, just take your time with all this you'll figure it out trust me, something will happen and it will determine your interests for good

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    • 51-65_m_f_h1_f4
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      did u have real sex with guy before or just kissssssssing and hugssss and play out in your body???did u make love to your girl friend 2??.................if u did both........what the differences between them in your mind and for your body...and your heart feeling????????

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  • 17-24_f_w_h2_f4
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    watch homo and hetero porn to know!!

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    Hypatia : your suggestions are all so dumb

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      Oh really?? the dumb is who askin hw to know her SEXUALITY without watchin or havin sex :/

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      Anonymous
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      I'm the one who wrote this post and i did not write this comment!

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  • 25-34_f_b_h1_f1
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    I surely know that could be a spectrum you are in.In other word,you don't need to define yourself from now.That will even make you more confused.Why the need to define yourself anyways.Be with whoever you want to be with.Sexual orientation,behavior and identity are always laying in different spectrum according to a lot of aspects whether they are social,environmental,biological or/and psychological. In addition to the experience you had among the past years.To choose to be a lesbian as you enjoy it and women are way affectionate other than men could be a reason too.I have heard about a movement of becoming lesbian that appeared in 2012 and they were just encouraging other women to leave men and become lesbians cause that will get the feminist movement stronger in a way.
    Check that link:

    http://sisterhoodispowerful.wordpress.com/2012/07/22/lesbian-feminism-or-political-lesbianism-in-2012/

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      well this is weird..why would straight women wanna be lesbians? :P
      It's way easier to just be straight! but okay some people want it the hard way.
      So i understand what you said, and i have decided not to label my sexuality anymore

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    • 25-34_f_b_h1_f1
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      genial!!

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