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Guy in a girl's body.

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I'm gonna make it short.
Well, last year I met a guy online. We became friends and then we fell in love with each other.We were such a happy couple.
But in fact that guy was a tomboy,a girl. I didn't know that because she looks like a guy, a real guy. Her face, her voice and everything in her. Yet she never told me about her sex. And when I found out that she's a girl in real. I was shocked actually. We broke up days after that............... since then I've been uncomfortable in my own skin questioning my sexual preferences.

What should I do? I'm really really clueless. I couldn't get over it.

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  • you said that you was shocked and broke up with her .. you didn't feel any attraction to a girl ( i knw she's a girl but you didn't knw )
    unless you attract to girls or think about them, you're straight

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  • 25-34_f_w_h2_f3
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    how come u never noticed though?,

    • 17-24_m_b_h3_f3
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      happens...I swear happens....It never happened to me but I dont find this situation completely unbelievable.

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    • 25-34_m_w_h1_f4
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      ya agree with sadis, its harder to notice when its online.

      just remember tho this situation is hard for her and if you truly loved this person try to be available because theyre confused and might need help.

      if this person manipulated you tho thats a different story... and then it would be better if you kept your distance.

      either way like others said it seems ure straight unless you find yourself having very very strong feelings towards this person and then you might be bi. some people are straight all their lives and then fall in love with that 1 person of a different gender, "the exception" to the rule, because of other qualities that drew you to them, qualities you see as very special and different from everyone else u met

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    • We were in a long distance relatioship. We never met in person. I couldn't know because we only were talked for several times on skype. She was just sitting, wearing boyish clothes, her hair cut and everything was so boyish. How can I know if she's a guy or not and everything from the inside says that she's a guy!! jeez

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    • 17-24_f_w_h3_f4
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      My gf is a stone butch and I swear you can't even tell she is a girl. from voice, body, walk, how she dresses. she gets mistaken a lot with being a guy.

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  • 17-24_m_b_h3_f3
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    Hey just remember why you were attracted to "him"... She was a transgender person. So please just tell that stupid voice in your mind that no amount of ranting and sleeping with girls is gonna makes you like other girls. You straight...period....date a guy if it makes you feel safe.

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  • Indeed I'm in rs with a guy atm but I'm not happy. He's so adorable and all... I'm cold with him. And I dunno what's happening to me. It seems like I've lost my sense or something. I can't feel anything with him. O__O wtf is this!!

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  • 17-24_f_w_h3_f4
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    you know? you fall in love with the soul not the body. would matter if it's a guy or girl? do you really think you fall in love with the body or the personality?
    If you are in love then why would it matter? Trust me, just try to think more freely and free your mind from the heterosexual/homosexual pressure and think.. do you love that person romantically or not? do you want to spend your life with them or not?
    That is all

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  • 25-34_f_w_h2_f3
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    i want bigirlfriend,, gosh

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  • 25-34_f_w_h2_f3
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    my dear, i meant bi-girlfriend

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  • 51-65_m_f_h1_f4
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    THANKS SWEATY............I UNDERSTAND NOW........U R SO LOVELY BI-GIRL

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