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The trust code

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Does any of you feel that there is this unspoken trust code between members of the LGBT community that we all somehow keep without knowing? The one where you're not supposed to out another LGBT person that you know about no matter what the temptations are?

I was once in love with this girl who was bisexual, and she dumped me for this guy. Soon after, the guy came to talk to me and started asking me questions. I think he doubted that she could be a lesbian but he was not sure, and he was hoping that I give him an answer. But even though she hurt me badly and I hated him, I still did not tell him anything. It was as if there is an unspoken agreement that we should trust each other and not tell.

Has anyone else been in similar situations?


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