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Well, I used to be best friends with this girl last year but she was basically a complete dick, She knew i was gay and i knew she was a slut, But lets not get into details I felt like i was sort of turning into her, The whole obnoxious attitude and snobbishness and i didn't like dealing with her immature ways getting drunk off of one beer then breaking shit and getting us kicked out of places, one day i just said im done and i thought this would be it, but i forgot that summer will end sooner or later and ill have to see her ass at school, so then she tells everyone i was a homosexual and her and her ugly ass brother start bullying me, Pathetic isnt it? Because she loved the fact that i was a homosexual and what not and the thing is im very open about it like i always give off that kind of vibe so were clear from the start, even though that was an uncalled for move that made no sense whatsoever, what do you think i should do? Not degrade my self. or tell people the reason she moved schools (she gave out a nude photo to a guy who gave it out to everyone) idk i think i should just be the mature person and let it go its not like i was harmed in the process that much or anything.

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  • 25-34_m_w_h1_f4
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    be the better person and move on from the headaches she gave you. dont tell people that reason because it will reflect badly on you. just let it go and start a new page without her presence. does she still go to the same school as you? either way try to avoid her at all costs. shes not worth the trouble and youre better than stooping to her level.

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    yes, shes moving to the states next year though so I'm hoping to never see that annoying ass face again, I'm just glad i was already out of the closet because this would've effected me badly if i wasn't, I guess i'm just pissed off over the whole situation

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  • 17-24_f_b_h2_f4
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    It's best to go no-contact with people like that forever. Like 6a3miya said, let it go and move on. Your life is better and you don't need to prove or defend yourself to anyone.

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  • You said it, she is a slut means you must have lots of dirt on her, revenge baby! thats what sluts get.

    • 17-24_f_w_h2_f1
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      The best kind of revenge is to live a good life. The way I see it, if someone like that was out of my life, I'd keep it that way and let it go because they're not worth the effort or negativity.

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      Listen, why should we let people who wrong us off the hook all the time? Why should one person suffers while the other gets away with whatever they do that hurt or upset others? I don't think that's fair.
      I think its very easy to live a good life and be happy while also avenging yourself and your dignity otherwise you won't completely be at ease at least not for some time.

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      Revenge is all well and good but the way Anon describes it, that person seems very toxic and it would be in Anon's best interest to stay far away. What is revenge going to accomplish? It will just trigger another fight and it's going affect Anon's life negatively. Is that person really worth that? Not at all. Personally, I wouldn't wish ill upon others but well upon myself because it always comes around. The way anon's ex-friend is, she'll get hers when the time comes. But who cares? She's out. Now anon can live a drama-free life.

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      I don't think refusing to be the victim is a bad thing. And there is levels of "revenge" of course, I'm well aware that if you obsess with taking someone down it may turn against you eventually and make you an unhappy person so there can always be a simple act of revenge that sends a simple message which is "do not mess with me again" and then you can very easily move on with your life and don't think about whoever bothered you ever again and no big harm was done on both sides but at the same time when you look back at it later you wont feel like you let someone else step on your dignity or that you willingly neglected your rights.
      Some wounds never really heal with time only

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      I guess it's up to OP to decide what best to do.

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    Well it would be great to go all Regina George on her ass and print out her photo and throw it around school, But i think it would be for the best to just move on i mean I got to do so many great things since i got her off my back and she lost all her friends and is kicking it with the veiled girls, So i think the best kind of revenge is to show her that im better than her in everywhere until she strikes again then the black mailing begins (best of both) ahaha

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