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hey ..so i have a little situation with my boyfriend and i don`t know what to do .. so i thought of making a topic about it ,maybe someone will advice me or give some kind of help ..

so here is : i have been with this guy since a weak now .. and i love him to death and it would kill me if ever done any thing to hurt him but i think i did :(

he is really a great person kind and funny but i started thinking that i am doing something wrong and feeling really like crap most of the time.. i am alone most of the time and i don't know many gay people to discus the subject with them.

but there is something that i am worried about .. he always tells me that he is not going to love anyone else after me .. and he might do something to him self .. and i just can't live with that kind of guilt.

so i am looking for any kind of advice.



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    drfreedom
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    hi andro, how r u? i hope u r fine.
    i wanna ask u (where's the problem)? coz i read what u wrote n i didn't find anything wrong, he loves u n kind n funny person so why u think that u did something wrong? so tell us what u did 2 him that made u fell guilty?
    i'll wait from u 2 give u the solution Inch'Allah

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    lmirna
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    Well, if you feel that you are unhappy being in a relationship with him then you should talk to him and try to make things work. If talking about it doesn't seem to work then you need to end things otherwise, you both will keep hurting each other and you'll be miserable.

    I don't know if he means what he said about hurting himself, but whenever I hear this kind of thing I feel like that person is being manipulative and trying to guilt their partner into staying with them.

    You should really talk this out with him and be as straightforward as possible. Not harsh, just honest. Whatever happens, be sure of who you are and try not to feel guilty without good reason.

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    Brunette
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    why d ou feel guilty is it because u dontlove him the same way he loves u the strongness of the relationship or because u dont want things to be serious n ur afraid he might get the wrong idea and think its serious n once u guys drift apart n break up he might hurt himself?

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    Really glad to know that things worked out with you! Communication is the key. I hope you have a long, healthy and happy relationship.

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