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WARNING SIGNS.....!!!
I love my gf so much..like i know shes the one n perfect person 4 me..but lately "N" a girl that some how managed to keep getting my attention popped out of nowhere. Just when things between me n ma gf were perfect!!
Am confused, sometimes i say am just interested to get to know her as a friend but the more a run into her the more things get confused...what makes things worse i cant avoid her cause shes the captain of the basketball team am in,n guess what she's GAY !!!
Maybe its a normal response for the way she acts when am around, cause she's either super sweet or wont look me in the eye n just ignore me n trying to act captain like ,, so this makes things so weird when were around each or playing on the same team during practice n when i try breaking the ice wall things just gets more awkward n weird....even other people started noticing this tension it n i keep avoiding bringing ma gf to the practice cause she noticed it too me..n when she asked i said shes not a ppl person..FORGET HER!! But i know she wont !! n ma team mates dont know am gay so all thinks ma girlfriend is ma best friend so the awkwardness continue with " N".
I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO??... i don't want to ruin the best thing that ever happened to me, i dont wanna lose ma gf because of a stupid confusion/awkwardness.
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You need to put some distance between yourself and her. Avoid her and don't day dream about her. Forget about breaking any ice either. Just keep a distance and bring your girlfriend with you to practice. She'll be a lovely distraction and will remind you of what matters most.
There could be a bunch of reasons for why you're having these feelings for someone. It could be curiosity or just infatuation, the kind that passes by and you later on wonder what it was all about. So till it passes, just remember that you may not be able to control your feelings but you can certainly control what you do about it.
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Huma's right. If that's the case with this N person, then you should definitely do that. You love your girlfriend and know that you wouldn't want anyone coming in between that.. Especially someone who is acting this way, causing unnecessary tension.
And another reason that I think might be it could be an innocent crush, which certainly might not mean anything.
Though whatever this girl is doing should definitely be ignored because you have something greater than this unneeded confusion she's causing.
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Agreed. We all have crushes. It doesn't matter until you do something about it, which, unless you're no longer in love with your current girlfriend, is not recommendable. This is not worth ruining your relationship over. Don't risk it! And don't tell your girlfriend about the crush. I am sure she has some too. Don't make things awkward or uncomfortable between you both.
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This seems to be a temptation and nothing else. If it was love you would have felt very differently about the whole situation.
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So here is the new episode with " N". Shes getting more competitive with me n am paying more attention to her n i dunno why?? i even started the whole being cold thing with her, like when shes trying to be nyc to me i just act like a total bitch with her, responding back, the attitude but she doesnt respond back like she just smile. N idunno why?? am i trying to get her attention or wanna push her away. Does she like me or am just imaging things. What i know is that the whole thing with her is really getting to me so bad am upset n stressed most of the time.
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If you left your girlfriend to be with "N" do you think you will be happier?
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NO!!! but its new to me cause through out the whole time i knew my girlfriend till now i never had such attraction to anyone but my gf ! its seems the more i try to ignore her the more i notice her..i just wanna know how to deal with this attraction n just make it go away now n take this girl out of my mind.
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I don't think you can take her out of your mind completely or ignore the situation even but don't give into your thoughts and try your best to stay as loyal and faithful as possible to your gf. It's fine to be attracted and to notice someone else, it's only cheating if you do something about this attraction like others said. As time passes by you will realise that you are noticing her less and less ... it's only scary and confusing because this experience is new to you but this will phase out. It happens!
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