i see examples of closeted gay friends who give up too soon on their future and give in to family pressure by getting married and living miserably stuck in that loveless marriage for sometimes years. its not very fair to the person theyre married to and not fair to the kids when they have any b-coz the passion and love for raising them is not there. everything in their life becomes a mistake that they regret.
if your thinking of giving up its not worth it. you will never ever be happy if you do that. if your gay you have to accept this is who you are. im not close to my family and i lost a lot of happiness in younger years b-coz they were not there to support me. its fine. i realised today i wouldve been many times unhappier if i let them win by controlling me and my future. now i am in complete control of my love life.
met amazing people b-coz i gave myself that chance. .